There are five candles on our dining room table. One of them has
been lit. Once. And, unfortunately, that’s probably the way it will stay
until Christmas day.
It’s like this almost every year at our house. We start the Advent
season promising ourselves that this Christmas will be different. We’ll
spend time together as a family. We’ll sing carols together, read scripture
together, and pray together every day.
But somehow it doesn’t happen. There’s gift shopping to be done,
packages to send off, and the usual rush of extra holiday events. There
are columns to write, book reviews to finish up, and some final details
on reports that I was supposed to have finished six months ago. And soon
there will be 150 blue-book exams and 30 term papers on my desk, all of
which have graded by December 27.
Too much to do, too little time. Not even enough time to gather
the family around the Advent wreath for a few minutes.
Seven-year-old Michael asks if we can’t have Advent. We put him
off: no one has had time to prepare anything. Maybe tomorrow.
Now I shouldn’t be struggling like this. After all, I teach time
management to my students, and I know all the techniques for making maximum
use of available time.
So: time to practice what I preach.
First, establish some goals: lifetime goals, goals for the next
five years, and goals I intend to achieve this month. Next, make a list
of all the things I have to do to achieve these goals. Next, prioritize
the list, noting which items are essential, which are of high priority,
and which aren’t particular important. Then: the schedule itself.
Make a grid that includes every day of the week and every hour
of the day. Start filling in the grid, making sure to put in the most important
items first.
It doesn’t work.
Every block is filled before I finish even half the essential
items. For that matter, every block is filled with priority one: spending
time with my wife and kids.
Jim Croce was right. There never is enough time to do the things
you want to do once you find them.
Except--maybe there is.
Maybe there’s a time management technique that really will work.
Suppose there were a way, not only to save time in a bottle,
but to get interest on the time saved as well. Suppose one could stash
away an hour, and have two hours to use later. Or perhaps one could get
an even better rate of return. Suppose one could save an hour, and
get a whole day in return, or a month, or a year.
Or suppose one could do even better. Suppose, that by acting
now, one could get an infinite supply of time, a never-ending treasure
chest of hours, days and years.
And, of course, one can.
Jesus said, “He that heareth my word, and believeth on him that
sent me, hath everlasting life.”
Amazing! What a fantastic technique for time management!
All I have to do is start listening to the Lord and obeying Him. And there
will never again be a problem of too little time.
Now I know from experience that having a devotional time every
day saves me time in the long run. I work more efficiently. I get lucky
time-and-money saving breaks that really have nothing to do with luck at
all. I get help on tasks from unexpected sources. And I see more clearly
how seemingly “urgent” matters are really not all that important after
all.
And I keep telling myself, that, as soon as I find the time,
I’ll start having regular personal devotions again. And as soon as I find
the time, I’ll have devotional time with my kids again. As soon as I find
the time, I’ll get a prayer partner again.
And I’ll do it tomorrow, maybe. Or the next day.